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Barbara Brooks created Flamingo Strategies LLC to help clients stand up and stand out, through telling and sharing their stories of impact and purpose.
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Mad necessary
Jul 25

Jul 25 Mad necessary

Barbara Brooks
Education, Wellness, Life

Until now staying home, having patience, waiting out the danger, has felt both sad and necessary. But today, I’m feeling mad than sad.

Composing a life
Jun 28

Jun 28 Composing a life

Barbara Brooks
Aging, Creativity, Life

Life is an improvisational art form. Interruptions are sources of wisdom, not counterproductive distractions. They prepare us for Adulthood II.

Hello out there...
Jun 6

Jun 6 Hello out there...

Barbara Brooks
Travel, Aging

The desire to be heard—across vast physical and emotional distance—is what makes us human. I’m desperate for connection yet afraid to go out. So it’s time to hit the road.

A wing and a prayer
May 9

May 9 A wing and a prayer

Barbara Brooks
Friendship, Wellness

In the past seven weeks, two of us survived the virus. One closed a business. A mother and a father have died. We decided to wing it and say a prayer.

This is the viral truth
Apr 25

Apr 25 This is the viral truth

Barbara Brooks
Friendship, Storytelling

Some people are making lemonade right now. Others are choking on the sour. But unless we ask, unless we listen, we don’t really know who’s who.

Shabbat She-Zoom
Apr 4

Apr 4 Shabbat She-Zoom

Barbara Brooks
Mindfulness, Wellness, Family

As word gets around, week by week, more faces and more flames will fill our screens—until the glow is so hot, so bright, so fierce, that we’re transfixed.

Cry if you want to
Apr 2

Apr 2 Cry if you want to

Barbara Brooks
Wellness, Aging

As a kid I was labeled overly sensitive. Since the coronavirus came into my life I cry every day. Here are three really good reasons why you might do it too.

Cannonballing back home
Mar 17

Mar 17 Cannonballing back home

Barbara Brooks
Education, Family, Mindfulness

Finding tranquility won’t be easy for my 19-year-old son. But there’s a rowing machine in the basement, and maybe he’ll learn to meditate.

Coronavirus: a tricky Stoic test
Mar 14

Mar 14 Coronavirus: a tricky Stoic test

Barbara Brooks
Mindfulness, Wellness

People pay a lot of money to cloister themselves in isolation. Depending on how we look at things—staying home can be either a punishment or a gift.

How to take a leap of faith
Mar 5

Mar 5 How to take a leap of faith

Barbara Brooks
Travel, Aging

In Almost Everything: Notes on Hope, Anne Lamott wrote: The opposite of faith is not doubt. It’s certainty. Now, there’s a Baja Aha!

Love that goes "ouch"
Feb 22

Feb 22 Love that goes "ouch"

Barbara Brooks
Family, Romance

LIVE at The Moth Story Slam: I proposed. I paid for the ring. I flushed my birth-control pills and moved into his apartment. What could go wrong?

Happy accidents
Feb 15

Feb 15 Happy accidents

Barbara Brooks
Creativity, Art, Mindfulness

There are no mistakes. Only happy accidents. As a novice painter, I enjoy that idea. But could the same also be true in the rest of our lives?

"Dear Money..."
Feb 4

Feb 4 "Dear Money..."

Barbara Brooks
Work ethic, Mindfulness, Entrepreneurship

Whether our habit is to blow all our dough on Manolo Blaniks, or stuff it under a mattress, we really can improve our relationship with money.

Wisdom @ Play
Jan 29

Jan 29 Wisdom @ Play

Barbara Brooks
Education, Creativity

Play allows us to germinate new ideas or see old ideas in a new light. It makes us more inquisitive, more attuned to novelty, more engaged.

Surrounded by shamans
Jan 27

Jan 27 Surrounded by shamans

Barbara Brooks
Creativity, Travel, Education

I planned to give the shaman nothing to go on. Until Tom said: You’re not going there to play Stump the Shaman. You’re going there to learn.

The time is right
Jan 11

Jan 11 The time is right

Barbara Brooks
Mindfulness, Travel, Wellness

Fear of missing out is a powerful thing. But once we put that aside, we can appreciate that we are on the right path. The only path.

Six weeks, six lessons
Dec 26

Dec 26 Six weeks, six lessons

Barbara Brooks
Mindfulness, Wellness

It’s been six weeks since my accident, and I think I’m ready to stop counting. I’m ready to move on. But I’m not ready to forget what I’ve learned.

The art of healing
Dec 23

Dec 23 The art of healing

Barbara Brooks
Creativity, Mindfulness, Wellness

Painting with watercolor helped me heal. In my process, I saw a metaphor for how we create our lives. I saw hope for the New Year.

Enthusiasm is essential
Nov 28

Nov 28 Enthusiasm is essential

Barbara Brooks
Wellness, Creativity

How can people like me—people like us—embrace essentialism without sacrificing the enthusiasm that is our power?

“Of a certain age”
Oct 11

Oct 11 “Of a certain age”

Barbara Brooks
Entrepreneurship, Wellness, Travel

Even on the days we feel scared or bored or invisible, of this we can be certain: The best years of our lives lie just “over the hill” up ahead.

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